女神穿衣指南

珺说,她们老板有个穿衣法则,贵的衣服和便宜的衣服搭配着穿,重器和廉价珠宝同时戴,就像是化妆,底妆口红可以选大牌,睫毛膏眉粉用开价货不无不可。她老板是个奇女子,一己之力打下一片江山,饶是这么有钱的人,却丝毫没有靠父母或男人养的小姑娘脾气,一掷千金,恨不得所有颜色all in。因为钱是自己赚的,才知道生活辛苦滋味。所以我们需要一些容易follow的pattern。

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一些思索

人生永远站在岔路口,只有走过了很远,再回头看看才发现,哦,原来走错了,已经跑偏了好长一段。可惜有时候没有那份勇气,硬着头皮越走越远,只能安慰自己还是看到了一些不一样的风景。

永远都不要把选择交到别人手里,也不要无限的妥协,换来的除了不在乎冷暴力还有更难堪的境地。真正值得人尊重的永远是自控和积极的正能量。一个女性,永远不应该因为性别优势而在金钱上占了男性的便宜而得意洋洋。”她那时候还太年轻,不知道所有命运赠送的礼物,早已在暗中标好了价格。“

不要因为周围的人都很差而沾沾自喜,这样都做不到最好当然是存在很多的问题的。比如口语上,比如跟老师交流上,还有时间规划上,与组员的沟通上。环境当然重要,名校最大的意义就是提供了好的人脉资源和眼界。真的很怀念ACM这个圈子里,那么多优秀的小伙伴。有时候突然关注一下他们的动态,就发现他们已经走的太远了,而我被远远地甩在了后面。

以前会很羡慕有些人全世界到处玩,有些人可以随便买奢侈品包包和鞋子。会很羡慕,有时候看似云淡风轻在知乎写下的话,其实是我自己也做不到的决心。可是我也在一点一点积累自己的资本,像贪恋的鸟一样,叼了很多东西藏在窝里。想要的东西依旧很多,不能放弃努力。我要的都是最好的。

 

My Failure on WHV

I don't want to complain about it any more and it is truly annoying that I have to explain this to my friends when they ask what happened.

First, I have to admit that it is my fault that I didn't achieve band 6 for each item in the IELTS exams. That means I would miss the entrance of my school in the end of July. At the same time, Chad's student visa was under process due to the low efficiency of immigration officer. I was not so sure that it would be approved but he insisted that he would pass it. As a result, he convinced me to apply for the WHV since I was definitely qualified for its rules and then I could take the IELTS exams and support myself via legal part-time job in NZ. How attractive it was! It turned out to be a torture in the following two months which both us could not imagine.

As so many people would apply for it on the website and the competition is fiercely each year, the condition of Internet would be worst at the application time. It's not possible to read all the rules at that time. Chad searched online for tips regarding application and followed them to fill other countries' form using my information as practice. He was lucky to pick up Thailand at the first time since after clicking the submit button he could delete it until he paid for the application fee. So it mislead him that his practice on other countries was OK and didn't have any negative effect. At one day before the application, he filled the forms via using Finland's form to auto-fill all the information so that he wouldn't type all the words later on. However, some developed countries like Finland, Japan and America etc. don't need the application fee and if you submit your application, you will never delete it ever. Chad was worried and made a international call to the NZ immigration office. He was told that it would not affect my application to Chinese WHV. It seems that the website updated with conspicuous fonts to warn everyone not to use other countries' form to practice not long before the Chinese WHV was opened for applicants. Chad was in charge of my application and I didn't pay much attention to the details.

After I got the quota and waited for two weeks, I didn't feel well about it. Someone shared a case on Douban WHV group that a Chinese guy's Finland application was approved and he got a reject on his real application. I added a QQ group and found a lot of guys who had the similar experience. We witnessed a lot together in the endless two months. Although it is not allowed to use any code scripts to get the quota and if you are not a legal adviser, you cannot charge for money and agent for other's application. Unfortunately it has happened in China. The agencies abused each other and made fake information to get new clients. Someone argued rudely with the people who got the quota but gave up it anyway. So many people want to be an intending immigrant and count on WHV to get a work visa. What's worse, someone increase the immigration officers workload via complaining phone calls and emails of selfish disposition. And I don't think it is suitable for people to laugh at others' dreams after being approved of WHV. Part of Chinese people tend to get pretty angry and impolite online. After rejected by the immigration officer, some applicants put their experience online and got much abuse. I feel so awful about all of this. For my perspective, it is a careless mistake but someone attacked people like me by commenting brainless, stupid, and dishonest etc.

I want to apologise for my inappropriate intension of WHV. I mean I wanted to pass my IELTS exam. The refusal has definitely unknown, horrible and negative influence on me. I suppose it is my punishment. I have to try hard to reduce it. I wrote this in English because I don't want to disturbed by vicious Chinese cyber citizens. That's all. My apology again.

Empire State of Mind

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I've learned something these days which I've tried to remember in my mind.
1.Don't judge people. It is important to reverse my own idea and prejudice about others. As a matter of fact, it's easy to hurt or humiliate people even it's not in purpose.
2.As the saying goes, 'First they ignore me, then they ridicule me, then they attack me, then I win.'. There's no need to care about all the rumors and slanders, because they are the true losers comparing with me.
3.I still have a long way on learning English and pass my exam. It's very meaningful.